Up-close and Personal

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Farini macam tak ada kekuatan untuk buat benda lain selain menguap. Er dan mengupdate blog for that matter =p. Sebab sejak semalam telah makan secara tak seberapa sampaikan perut berbunyi macam katak ketika exam thermo tadi, saya telah makan secara melimpah ruah selepas exam. Indian food with Su Yeon and Da Yeong. Tapi entah kenapa nasi beryani otsal macam tak berapa masak sikit tadi.

Kami cerita tentang zaman kanak-kanak. Tentang sekolah. Tentang ape entah lagi. Topik yang menarik dikupas. Korean people and appearance. Atau boleh juga disebut sebagai korean people dan plastic surgery.

Saya tak pernah bertanya direct tentang hal ini pada mana-mana korean sekali pun. Ketika itu saya try to argue korean guys macam lebih memandang luaran sebab terlalu banyak surged faces di korea. They are used to pretty faces. Thus perempuan yang biasa nampak macam terlalu biasa. Tapi dari cara Su Yeon jawab, I came to understand that the whole thing is not a question of individual insecurity or self-esteem or greed. Lebih kepada society problem. Appearance plays a key role in korean society. Dan bukan sekadar appearance yang cuma acceptable, tapi appearance yang hebat. If your face doesn't naturally give out charm and good impression, then you should be worried about your future. Obviously bila ada dua orang yang attend one interview, the one with better look has more chance to succeed. It's not the person, it's the society. I guess the saying "don't judge the book by its cover" macam cuma akan tertinggal di mulut manusia. Tak akan lagi sampai ke hati.

I am not stunningly pretty but I am perfectly happy with the way I look. That is what I firmly told them.